Life Lesson
Yesterday was a big day for Oldest Daughter. No, she didn't perform in a dance onstage or attend any celebrations. It isn't her birthday, nor is there a holiday within a stones' throw. Yesterday, Oldest Daughter l earnt a life lesson. This lesson learned was one that I, as a mother, hoped would not come for many more years. But as we all know, life does not happen as we hope and pray that it would. I will not tell you the story that precipitated her life lesson. That story should be significant only to her. Suffice it to say, Oldest Daughter chose to end an important friendship yesterday. She chose to end it because this friend continually hurt her feelings, chose another over her even when told it was hurting Oldest Daughters' feelings and in general made her too sad to want to give her a fifth or sixth chance. As her mother, my heart aches for her. I want to take away h...